The reason I don’t think Americans should go on mission trips to Mexico is because it is an easy destination (Baja in particular).
I don’t have a problem with doing something easy in and of itself. But ‘easy’ has created a lot of problems and produced a lot of abuse at the hands of American Christians in Mexico. In general, mission trips in Mexico produce very little long term change. At times they even discourage long term change.
Because Mexico is an easy destination to encounter poverty, scores of church groups go to Mexico to “help the poor.” Often these trips are more about exposing American teenagers to poverty and missions than about actually helping Mexicans out of poverty. To a certain extent, Christians are using the Mexican poor to meet their own needs. Nobody will ever actually admit this, but if Mexico came out of poverty, it would actually hurt the agendas of a number of youth programs. We (the American church) need Mexico to be poor.
Because Mexico is an easy destination, it means people can get there and back without thinking through the consequences of their actions. Poverty is a difficult and complicated problem to overcome. Americans are under the false delusion that a lack of resources is the main reason people are poor. We have resources, so we take them to people and give them away. Problem solved. A lack of resources is the most obvious result of poverty, but it is not where poverty starts or ends. When we take resources alone to people in poverty we sometimes make the problem worse. Two quick examples:
1)There are communities in Mexico that are so bombarded by American mission trips that they do not wash their clothes. Americans always bring new clothes, so they were a shirt once and then throw it away.
2) Did you know that very nearly all of the orphans in Mexico have living parents (who sometimes visit them)? Every time we build a new orphanage in Mexico we create new orphans. There is a cultural problem in Mexico in which step-fathers will not raise children that are not their own. So when Mom gets a new husband, she sends all the kids to any one of the newly built orphanages. Instead of confronting this problem we are perpetuating it. We are convinced that 3 good meals in our orphanage are better for a child than one meal with their own family.
Because Mexico is an easy destination Americans take the problem of poverty away from Mexican Christians. Because we’ve taught the Mexicans that a lack of resources is the main obstacle to change, how can they compete with their American brothers? We say in one breath “Resources are the problem and we have them. So sit back and relax we’ve got it all taken care of.” Should someone be taking care of the poor in Mexico? Absolutely, and the Mexican church should be leading the way on how to do it. Mexican Christians live there and understand the cultural issues far better than we do. They’re also there for the long term so they are BEST equipped to see change happen. As it stands we invite Mexican Christians into our programs instead of being invited by Mexican Christians into their programs. Transformation is a long term process. It CANNOT be done on a weekend trip. Always ask the question, “would the Mexican church being doing this on their own if we weren’t here?”
And this is perhaps my most important point. Mexican transformation is simply not the goal of most mission trips to Mexico. So it’s no wonder that we don’t implement programs that are sustainable. Our goal in Mexico is simply to give them stuff or get them to say the sinner’s prayer. This is perhaps a crystal clear look into two of the American church’s own sins: material goods will take care of your problems and converts are more valuable than disciples.
Christian development agencies actually know how to get a community out of poverty, they do so with success all of the time. So ask yourself, after 30+ years of the most extensive missions work in the history of the world, why is Baja Mexico still in poverty? Some give reasoning that is out right racism. We can expect development to happen every where else in the world, but for some reason with think it’s the Mexicans who can’t do it.
I think the safest thing American Christians can do is to bail out of Mexico (I’m thrilled with the new Passport restrictions). There is so much abuse and so many poorly thought through programs it’s unlikely you’ll be doing anyone any long term good by being there. There may be some great programs and it might be possible to be involved in something good there, but right now I don’t see it. If you want a safe bet, only partner with groups that are part of AERDO And don’t at all feel guilty for abandoning Mexico, I guarantee there are 500 teenagers on their way right now, that base has been covered.
July 18, 2007 at 5:46 pm
Very well said, Aaron. I’m always a bit frustrated by people’s willingness to minister in a different country but not help their neighbors across town.
July 18, 2007 at 8:43 pm
Hi Matt, Thanks for your comment. Just to clear up confusion, there are two authors here. I’m Dando.
I’m not at all opposed to people doing service in foreign countries, but we just need to recognize it for what it is. Short term missions is largely ineffective because we can’t see our work all the way through. So we need to partner with people who ARE doing good work and do have long term goals in mind. Where ever we go, we shouldn’t be a part of one-hit-wonders.
July 19, 2007 at 2:57 am
And there’s plenty of poverty here at home in the states, if youth groups need an easy destination.
July 19, 2007 at 4:23 pm
As one doing development work in the developing world, I could not agree more. Most short term mission trips are very self-serving in nature. It gives the church a “feel good” moment, so they can go back to consuming stuff. There are things that short term teams can do, but hand-outs and building things are hurtful to the long-range development of a land.
July 20, 2007 at 10:50 am
I’ve always wondered if we, as Americans, aren’t actually exasperating the poverty issue. I hate even answering this because I do not know enough of the Mexican culture to say that they are taking advantage of “our goodness”.
What I do find bothering is that sometimes, as Americans, we feel the need to change other people/cultures. This is not something I agree with. We feel the need to “civilize” them when it really should be God who changes their hearts. This should not disregard missions. I hope it doesn’t. I believe in missions and spreading the Word of God to other cultures. But let God do the changing. Let the missionaries respect the culture that is already in place. If I remember correctly a lot of mission organizations work on this very thing.
Anywho…it’s interesting about the short-term missions. Don’t churches work with missionaries to bring down these short-term missions? Or have I never attended a large enough church to really understand short-term missions?
July 20, 2007 at 1:19 pm
Dando, interesting take. I think you are right that Christians really aren’t helping to solve the problem, mainly because Christians are solving for a different problem. They are solving for converts rather than culture change.
July 20, 2007 at 2:08 pm
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August 12, 2007 at 9:09 am
Although Christians can help orphanages in Mexico it is best to consider what the outcome will be:
BASIC QUESTIONS – Can you REALLY help the Mexico Missions?
- Does the orphanage really provide loving care for the orphans or is that only while you are there? If so, there should be testimony to the same. What happens when you are not there?
- Does the orphanage use or abuse the orphans; do they exploit them for their own profits? Do they allow others to do this?
- Does the orphanage administration use the funds and materials you provide for the benefit of the orphans or for them? Do they sell the goods you have traveled long distances and sacrificed to provide them in order to buy something “they really need” – if so, who got the benefit then?
- Does the orphanage dress the kids in rags while you are there “so you see the needs”? Are they playing your emotions for a “hand-out”?
- Does the orphanage have or value “oversight”? Would it be a problem for you to see the accounting books of income and expenses for each child? Is it the ONLY accounting books they have? Or is there a secret book somewhere else?
- Is your group the only providers for this orphanage? Who else is helping them? [in some cases there are more than 20 sponsors for each individual child - each sending $20 dlls or more a month - does the child get all that benefit?]
- Does the child get enough personal attention, enough food and medical attention – when you are not there?
- Are the orphans being trafficked before, during or after they leave the orphanage?
- Should you make a surprise visit what would you find REALLY happening.
You might be surprised at some of the orphanage administration that by slight-of-hand get away with everything they want – including the money.
If you find yourself in a situation where the orphanage administration has no other needs except “cash” [either dollars or euros] maybe you should consider helping other places where the concept is not “give us a hand-out”, rather, give us a “hand up”. Orphanage sustainability is a vital point that is in the best interest of all those you really wanted to help.
Not all orphanages are in need, some bring in more money a year than you know or care to dream of – from more than one customer [I mean, from more than one "ministry"].
It is very rare to find an orphanage that is REALLY helping the children with all their heart and all the money and materials that they take in, there are a few good ones that do. If you really care, find out. Ask questions.
Not all people or orphanages are interested in hearing these thoughts; however, why not think about it before you decide.
September 23, 2007 at 4:28 pm
“The reason I don’t think Americans should go on mission trips to Mexico is because it is an easy destination”
What is this trying to say? That Americans should stay in America and do mission work, because there is a need there? Or that Americans should go somewhere more remote, harder to get to, because…why exactly? Does it make them better Christians, to do something more difficult?
“Our goal in Mexico is simply to give them stuff or get them to say the sinner’s prayer.”
When did the goal of Christianity become gaining converts? I thought it was about showing God’s love to people. Maybe you don’t really understand it? Or maybe you’ve just swallowed what non-Christians say Christianity is about.
September 23, 2007 at 6:38 pm
What is this trying to say? That Americans should stay in America and do mission work, because there is a need there? Or that Americans should go somewhere more remote, harder to get to, because…why exactly? Does it make them better Christians, to do something more difficult?
thanks for your clarify questions. I said that because people who don’t know what the heck they are doing are going to Mexico in droves simply because it is an easy destination. So if you want to be part of truly transformational work, beyond hand-outs, Mexico is not the place to go (until we can better educate the general American Christian population).
When did the goal of Christianity become gaining converts? I thought it was about showing God’s love to people. Maybe you don’t really understand it?
I have met PLENTY of Christians who only have the goal of winning converts. I do NOT in any way think that’s what we are supposed to be about. Jesus told us to go out and make disciples. Check out my post on Evangelical Gnosticism. http://voicesfromthemargin.wordpress.com/2007/07/23/evangelical-gnosticism/
September 28, 2007 at 7:00 pm
Jesus said to feed and cloth the poor,and to preach the gospel unconditonally. i agree, that we need to help empower the local community chrisitans to keep reaching out to thier own people, but we cant stop helping the poor. Many people wont get to heaven because they dont want to help the poor unconditionally,its for Christ . Please read live mathew 25. The poor will always be with us and who is my neighbor? We help the poor that we can. You need to help the poor that God tells you to not man.Love and help uncondtionallyin Christ’s love. God bless. juan.
September 29, 2007 at 9:28 am
Amen and Amen.
The question is, “are we keeping them poor so that we can serve them?” We shouldn’t be involved in work that enables dysfunction and perpetuates poverty.
Listen to this for more on the subject.
October 23, 2007 at 1:20 pm
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November 8, 2007 at 2:32 am
It is very important for everyone to understand that “Ministry to Orphan Children” in Baja or other locations in Mexico – or anywhere in the world is very important and very good – and it will be needed until the end of time.
However, problems [which could be avoided] have happened in a number of these orphanages because of a “lack of oversight” – of who? Of the “Administration”.
Do you really want to help these children? That’s great. Just ensure that your efforts and monies are REALLY helping the children, not harming them, and that there is no “profiteering” on the part of any person, no sexual favors or human trafficking going on or other forms of exploitation of the orphan children by anyone – including “administration”.
In more than one orphanage case the children living there have been trafficked to “customers” or even “employees” on the orphanage grounds – often in exchange for some coin or other trinket. Is this where you want your money to go? If not then be very careful and do your homework before supporting such places.
Are ALL orphanages like this? No, fortunately they are not. However, many of these kinds of problems: Rape, Torture, Child abuses of various kinds and Child Trafficking have happened to MANY orphans in these places by “entities” of very questionable character with very selfish motives.
What needs to happen – for the protection of the orphan children is:
- Tougher laws in Baja Mexico defending orphans against these abuses.
- An investigation of criminals [starting with high ranking DIF personnel] involved with trafficking the orphan children and penalties should be enforced for the guilty!
- The DIF needs oversight themselves – by independent people, groups, churches and agencies and should not be allowed to get away with trafficking of these children on the basis that they are the “current legal guardians”.
- Mexico has signed to provide Human Rights for everyone [unlike some countries that will not sign] and every orphan child needs to know that they do have Human rights and these rights should not be taken from them. How hard can that be?
- The DIF should be responsible to ensure that EACH orphan knows what Human Rights they have and to see to it that no one harms these children. Ever.
- Many “law agencies” are guilty also in furthering abuses against the orphans. Yes, some of these “officials” do take bribes. Crimes against humanity – is the “agenda” against so many orphans by so many others.
- We must take better care to ensure these abuses do not continue. How? By wise use of OVERSIGHT at these orphanages.
God has a “Plan” for those who harm the orphans. Read it for yourself: Exodus 22:22-24 [notice who is talking].
In defense of the orphan Children,
Lane Scott
drlanescott@yahoo
January 3, 2008 at 1:49 pm
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January 4, 2008 at 6:13 pm
I HAVE BEEN SERVING IN MEXICO FOR SHORT TERM MISSIONS FOR THE LAST THREE YEARS.EACH TRIP WE WORK WITH THE CHURCHES IN MEXICO,AND THEY DIRECT US TO THE MAJOR NEEDS OF THAT COLONY.WE DO WHAT WE CAN INCLUDING BUILDING HOUSES OR CHURCHES,GIVING TOYS TO THE CHILDREN (ORPHANED OR OTHERWISE), PROVIDE CLOTHES AND FOOD,OR SOMETIMES JUST GIVING A SMILE OR TALKING WITH THEM. EACH YEAR WHEN WE COME BACK WE SEE A MAJOR IMPROVEMENT IN THE COLONIES WHERE WE HAVE WORKED. SO I HAVE PROOF THAT OUR WORK IS LONG TERM SUCCESSFUL.AND WE DO TELL PEOPLE ABOUT THE GOSPEL OF JESUS,SOME ARE WILLING TO ACCEPT,SOME OR NOT, BUT THE BIBLE COMMANDS US TO SPREAD THE GOOD NEWS,SO THAT IS WHAT WE WILL DO.AND YES THERE IS A MISSIONARY IN THE AREAS WHERE WE WORK,SO THEREFORE WE DO HAVE SOMEONE THERE FULL TIME.I HAVE DEVELOPED MANY WONDERFUL FRIENDS IN MEXICO,WHO I WILL ALWAYS KEEP CONTACT WITH,SO THAT ALONE WAS WORTH THE TRIP FOR ME.BUT IT REALLY DOES NOT MAKE US FEEL GOOD JUST BECAUSE WE GO THERE AND DO A LITTLE MISSION WORK. MOST OF THE TIME WE LEAVE IN TEARS BECAUSE WE CANT STAY LONGER,OR HELP MORE PEOPLE.THE MEXICAN PEOPLE ARE THE MOST WELCOMING PEOPLE ON THE FACE OF THE EARTH.THEY ALWAYS SMILE WHEN THEY SEE US.I HOPE THIS WILL ENLIGHTEN SOME OF YOU ON WHY AMERICANS GO TO MEXICO FOR MISSION TRIPS.MY CHURCH OFFERS MISSION TRIPS ALL OVER THE WORLD,BUT THE MEXICANS ARE JUST AS DESERVING AS ANY OTHER COUNTRY OR CULTURE OF PEOPLE, NO MATTER HOW LONG IT TAKES US TO GET THERE.
January 13, 2008 at 10:56 pm
WEEKEND TRIPS TO BAJA ARE ESSENTIALLY SELFISH IN NATURE (HAVING LEAD MANY TEAMS DOWN, I KNOW). HOWEVER, SOMETHING IS CERTAINLY NEEDED FOR AMERICANS, ESPECIALLY OUR CHRISTIAN YOUTH, TO BREAK OUT OF THEIR ENTERTAINMENT AND COMFORT/SELF CENTERED LIVES AND LEARN HOW BLESSED IT IS TO FOLLOW CHRIST AND SERVE OTHERS… ESPECIALLY CROSS CULTURALLY. UNLESS THEY GO, THEY WILL NEVER GET IT.
TRUE, WE HAVE MANY MINISTRY OPPORTUNITIES HERE IN THE US, BUT EXACTLY THE SAME CAN BE SAID FOR MANY OF OUR OWN POOR IN REGARD TO DEPENDENCY ON HANDOUTS. YES CULTIVATING DEPENDENCY IS WRONG AND OFTEN BECOMES A BARRIER TO THE GOSPEL IN VARIOUS WAYS OVER TIME NO MATTER WHERE IT OCCURS.
THE REALITY IS…WE ARE THE RICHEST OF THE RICH ON THIS PLANET (JUST HAVING A 2 CAR FAMILY PUTS US AT THE TOP 2%, AND OWNING A HOME BRINGS US TO THE TOP 1/2 OF 1% OF THE WORLDS RICHEST)…READING WHAT JESUS HAS TO SAY ABOUT THE RICH…WE DO NEED TO BE CONCERNED. THUS, IT IS US WHO MAY BE THE POOR…SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING (CHECK OUT REV. 3:14-19, THE LETTER TO THE RICH CHURCH IN LAODICEA…SCARY! IN CONTRAST, THE POOR/PERSECUTED CHURCH IN SMYRNA IS ENCOURAGED! REV. 2:8-12).
WE, AMERICAN AND CANADIAN (RICH) CHRISTIANS REALLY NEED, AS AN ESSENTIAL INGREDIENT TO OUR OWN DECIPLESHIP JOURNEY IN CHRIST, TO GO ON MISSIONS/MINISTRY TRIPS THAT TRULY SERVE AND EXPERIENCE GOD’S WORK FIRST HAND. HOW ELSE WILL THE CAMEL FIT THROUGH THE NEEDLE’S EYE?
WE JUST NEED THE WISDOM AND GUIDANCE TO DO MORE GOOD THAN HARM IN THE PLACES WE SERVE…ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD.
I COMPLIMENT THE AUTHORS OF THE POSTED ARTICLE FOR BEING WILLING TO CHALLENGE THE PROBLEM, BUT I DO BELIEVE WE NEED TO CONTINUE GOING TO BAJA WITH CAUTION AND MUCH GREATER WISDOM…NOT CHRISTIAN TOURISM, WHERE EVERYONE PATS THEMSELVES ON THE BACK WHEN THEY GET HOME AND BRAGS TO THEIR FRIENDS AND SHOWS OFF PICTURES– AFTER A ONE OR TWO DAY EXCURSION INCLUDING THE SHOPPING AND TACOS. WE CAN NOT GO AS RICH GRINGOS TRYING TO FIX THEM…I AM SURE GLAD THAT GOD IS VERY PATIENT WITH US IN OUR FOOLISH PRIDE…WE HAVE A LOT TO LEARN.
WE SHOULD GO…WORKING UNDER A LOCAL PASTOR, LISTENING TO THE REAL NEEDS FROM ESTABLISHED INDIGENOUS CHURCH LEADERS, AND HUMBLY LEARNING FROM AND SEEKING TO UNDERSTAND OUR MANY “RICH” BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN CHRIST WHO LIVE IN RELATIVE POVERTY IN BAJA MEXICO. WITH GOD’S GRACE, THEY WILL HELP US CHANGE FOR THE BETTER EVEN MORE THAN WE MAY “HELP” THEM. THE BLESSINGS CAN GO BOTH WAYS!
February 21, 2008 at 9:46 pm
It will be my seventh trip to Tijuana, Mexico this coming March. I work with Amor Ministries which is an organization that works with families throughout the Tijuana area. I have built three houses (my fourth in march) and have worked at the Casa Hogar Sion orphanage for two weeks. By building houses I may not have “changed Mexico” but that’s not my goal. My goal is to improve the life of one family at a time. To take them from living a shack to having four walls, a roof and a cement floor. The families help us build their house (if they choose to, which often they do) and cannot be more happy. Handing someone the key to their own home is the most rewarding feeling. By building a home we show our faith in action; there is no need to “convert” the families, most have already accepted God and are more religious and spiritual than I will ever know. My one-week mission may be “short term” but will have a long term affect. We are not providing food and other perishable items, we are providing a home. A concrete shelter that will provide a safe environment. It is amazing to see how many “Amor” houses (they are all the same basic structure) are in Tijuana; to see how many lives have been directly and positively impacted. These families were living in terrible conditions prior to obtaining their new homes.
Living in Ohio, Mexico is not necessarily an “easy way out”. I’m not expecting a ticket into heaven or a gold star plastered on my forehead; I’m expecting a family to feel loved and to have a safe environment to live in. I don’t understand how any educated person could have an opposing viewpoint to this topic. Denying people basic necessities simply because we, as Christians, may also take away something from it, is absolutely ridiculous. I’m 17 years old and have been building houses with Amor since I was 14. Yes, I have learned a ton from my trips to Tijuana. I have been exposed to the extreme poverty in the world and that makes me appreciate what I have and be far more willing to give to others.
The Casa Hogar Sion Orphanage is one of the most loving and caring places in the entire world. And yes, some of the children living there do have families. If their family is incapable of supporting them but still loves them that is amazing, not something to be looked down upon. I’d much rather have a family drop off their child but still come visit rather than abandon the child altogether. The children at this orphanage are sent to private school, have wonderful living conditions and are very loved.
(www.casahogarsion.com)
Thank you.
February 22, 2008 at 10:54 am
Carli,
You value a number of good things. The question is, should we value them over what God desires for people.
Who does God want to take care of children? Answer: their parents. Parents are always His first choice to take care of children. Even if it means that they can’t go to private Christian school. We would be much more biblically aligned if we helped those families get to a point where they can take care of their children themselves, rather than take care of them ourselves.
“Staying Out of Mexico” is not about denying the Mexican people help and Christian service. It’s holding out for something more (and demanding more)than short term handouts (even if they are as large as a house). What’s better than giving a Mexican family a house, is helping their entire community get to a place where THEY can build their own houses. Wouldn’t you agree that that is better than having them rely on Americans to come build houses for them?
Your interest in this topic at your age is great. Most Americans aren’t thinking about serving the poor at all. So I don’t at all want to discourage you from reaching out to people. But you should start researching and studying Christian relief and development strategies. There are MANY much more effective and beneficial efforts going on around than world compared to what is happening in Tijuana. One place I’d encourage you to start is the first 8 episodes of http://www.povertyunlocked.com
For sure mention what I talk about to your youth pastor or other adults. Bounce my ideas off of them and see what they say.
April 4, 2008 at 3:58 pm
I have a mixed reaction to what you are saying. There are several responses that I will have to agree with and yet I understand your reasoning at the same time. What Rick said is true. Sometimes these short-term mission trips are needed to awaken America’s youth to what we have. America’s youth take so much for granted and it’s absolutely ridiculous. But it’s not just about that, sometimes these short-term trips will open up desires to do long-term if not life long mission. For example, 10 years ago I went to the Domincan Republic on a mission trip with my high school. I have always told people that while I worked hard on that trip it was always the best vacation I had ever had because of the way the childrens’ faces lit up when we gave out simple things like crayons and coloring books (we were there to assist in building a new church for the community as well). (Not to mention the 3 marriage proposals LOL). That trip taught me a lot especially given the fact that for 10 days we couldn’t drink the tap water, had luke warm (if that) showers, slept under mosquito netting (and still got bit:D). But despite all of that, when the 10 days were over, I was really sad to leave. I did not know it then but I was already starting to feel the call to mission work. In a ways though I kind of did because not too long afterwards, the youth group of my church started an orphanage in Baja, Mexico in honor of a girl who died. It is a wonderful place and while it might be an “easy place” to go to it has also been a blessing each time that the youth have gone there both for the children who the orphanage is helping but also for the youth of the church because this has been their project, and not just to make converts or come away with a “feel good” attitude but to be able to reach out. They have also done other things as well such as help Katrina victims and others so they have also helped in the U.S. as well. These trips (although I have yet to go there with them) have opened my eyes to what God wants me to do. I would like to open an orphanage in Mexico. Why in Mexico? Not because I feel that as an American I am rich and have the resources by no means. Right now I am living below the poverty level in America so I know that right now I don’t have the resources. Those will come with time and when God gives them to me. The difference is that I have had people who have given me help. Your response to Carli about building houses for someone versus having them build it for themselves seemed almost callus to me because while yes it would be nice for someone to be able to build their own home, they might be doing what they can and still come up short so what is wrong with giving a leg up? I know that if it were not for my parents helping me with my son while I am in school, he and I would be on the streets. Are my parents wrong for giving me help for that?
I do also understand about the orphan problem being that some parents may not be able to take care of their kids. Which is why I want my place to be different. I would like to offer to others what has been given to me by others. A chance to better themselves without having to worry about the daily necessities by themselves until they can provide for them and their children. Don’t look down on what others do. I know that some may not have pure intentions but there are many who do but who are we to know (other than the ones that are obviously being abusive, I’m not talking about naivete here.) Only God knows these things. Christ said “Go and teach ALL nations.” Mexico is my nation, if not by blood, it is by heart because that’s where God told me to go and not because it is the easiest.
April 6, 2008 at 6:23 pm
I know that if it were not for my parents helping me with my son while I am in school, he and I would be on the streets. Are my parents wrong for giving me help for that?
And this is EXACTLY the point Charity. Your parents, your church and your community should be the ones helping you. THEY know far better what might be of benefit to you. Would different groups of Swedish teenagers that showed up once a month to give you handouts really be as helpful to you as people in your own community coming along side you and helping you attend school?
The same is true of the poor in Mexico. The Mexican church is the best prepared to help Mexicans. But it is difficult for them to do so or feel that it is their duty when they get steamrolled by the big ticket purchases of their American neighbors.
The best work WE can do in Mexico is phelping the Mexican church to love their and then get out of the way.
Don’t look down on what others do. I know that some may not have pure intentions but there are many who do but who are we to know (other than the ones that are obviously being abusive, I’m not talking about naivete here.) Only God knows these things.
It is those with only good intentions and nothing more that I’m most concerned about. The Bible gives some great principles for helping those in poverty. If we Christians are not doing it in a way that ignores the Bible, we absolutely should look down on those methods.
While you’re hear you should check out my post on orphan care: http://voicesfromthemargin.wordpress.com/2007/07/24/orphan-care/